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How many times has this happened to us?
We walk into a restaurant, meet someone for the first time, exchange pleasantries, and at the back of our minds think, “I’ve stalked you several times on Instagram but let’s just pretend I haven’t shall we?” We therefore proceed to pretend that we haven’t stalked their glorious selfies for days while they share about what they do, the things they’re passionate about, and what they like to do, all of which you are already aware of because the person (surprise surprise) also has Twitter.
For people who aren’t on social media, the whole she bang might seem a
bit odd but this is the reality that we live in today. We are the social media
generation and what Friendster innocently started almost ten years ago has
ballooned into the greatest phenomenon our social lives have seen in quite some
time. Today, people who aren’t on social media are considered to be shady (Ay, walang Instagram si Kuya, kahit
Facebook, siguro he has ten side chicks) and believe me when I say that
many relationships (both romantic and platonic) have thrived and died because
of social media.
In its most simplistic terms, social media is intended to make lives
easier. With one click, we are able to share our lives through our photos, personal
thoughts, and even our likes. Social media has opened up possibilities that
were previously not possible before and for that, I am grateful.
For people who aren’t on social media, the whole she bang might seem a
bit odd but this is the reality that we live in today. We are the social media
generation and what Friendster innocently started almost ten years ago has
ballooned into the greatest phenomenon our social lives have seen in quite some
time. Today, people who aren’t on social media are considered to be shady (Ay, walang Instagram si Kuya, kahit
Facebook, siguro he has ten side chicks) and believe me when I say that
many relationships (both romantic and platonic) have thrived and died because
of social media.
In its most simplistic terms, social media is intended to make lives
easier. With one click, we are able to share our lives through our photos, personal
thoughts, and even our likes. Social media has opened up possibilities that
were previously not possible before and for that, I am grateful.
However, at the same time, it has also opened a Pandora’s Box of
challenges. For one thing, it’s easier to be a predator these days and has
become more difficult to be a teenager and a human being in general.
Many have argued that social media has encouraged people to live double
lives, meaning that they try to make their lives appear perfect through the
many filters and angles. Social media has also become an avenue of seeing which
one of us have been living better lives. Aminin
na natin, we sometimes use social media to prove to the people who used to be
in our lives that we’re better off. And this is where the pressure begins.
Do we lead double lives because of it? Are we constantly on “image” mode
because of the life we portray online?
I’d like to believe that social media has also shifted the way we date.
If before we used to rely on phone calls and text messages to let us know that
we’re liked, now our papansin has
gone to entirely different levels. We should be following each other on Instagram
with likes or comments or else you’re probably not serious with me. Come to
think of it, medyo baliw lang diba? I’ve also heard stories about couples
breaking up because of who one follows on social media (seryoso, what is your
relationship built on?).
Have we really diminished ourselves and our self worth based on a few
likes? Have we abused how we used social media? Do we do things out of the
desire to have something to post?
Most importantly, are we being authentic?
These are just a few things to
ponder on and hopefully change the way we perceive things. Or better yet, is
time to put down our phones and get to know someone in real time? That maybe we
should let down the filters, the angles, and our guards, and just be our
authentic selves because in truth that’s all the world needs anyway.
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